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baby essentials-year one

imagejpeg_2_16Emma is almost one year old and I thought it may be a good idea to document all the stuff we actually used during our first year with a baby.

Onesies and soft pants. I never understood pajamas and play wear for babies. Just dress them comfortably all the time and then there is no need to change to fit the occasion. Carters onesies are soft and come in packs. I had fun buying Emma lots of different second hand pieces and she was cute in them but grew out of everything really fast. Thank goodness I didn’t buy everything full price! Trumpette socks from Target worked well enough for us and we received some others that worked even better that came up higher and also looked like ballet slippers. Bought Acorn slippers later and they are great! Emma wore wool socks as mittens and her fleece sleep sack over her fleece jacket during the winter. People still went out their way to tell us she was cold. So weird! She loved hats until a couple months ago.

Disposable diapers, as well as diaper covers and clips for our cloth diaper days. We bought seventh generation after she grew out of the newborn diapers we were gifted. Cloth wipes were the greatest thing ever to have on hand. I preferred the regular to the bamboo Lionheart wipes. A friend gave us a ton of these little cloths too that we use for everything. I also reccommend the Planet Wise wet/dry laundry bag. For wet wipes I only buy Lasinoh. They are the best—and I know from first hand experience changing diapers at work! The Kirkland brand are the next runner up. For cream I love the Weleda Calendula diaper cream.

Diaper changing pad was from Summer Infant and I didn’t buy a cover. Instead I have covered it will cloth diapers that are easy to switch out. Emma scratched the pad a lot when she was small and so it has lots of tears in it—its really worn out now! For travel we have the quick change pad and it is super duper awesome and like seven dollars. Again I carry a cloth diaper to cover it. I never bought a diaper bag by the way. First I used my Falljraven backpack and now her stuff is squeezed in a Skip Hop frog backpack because its so damn cute.

Bath tub, Johnson & Johnson baby wash, wash cloth and rubber ducky (not an essential but Emma likes it now that e is older). Have wanted to try the Weleda Calendula wash or Burt’s Bees or Mustela but this J&J bottle has lasted eleven months. ^_^ Never put lotions or oils on Emma and she doesn’t have dry skin.

Toys have been few but good quality. A ring from Haba, this cute animal train and of course Sophie. She received the Plan Toys stackers as a gift and likes carrying those colorful circles around too. Emma loved her Ikea gym and still carries the hanging pieces around. At twenty dollars its really the best toy purchase.

Books that Emma has and loves: The Hungry Caterpillar (she loves the holes), Goodnight Moon (good contrast) and the Mommy Loves/Daddy Cuddles series! Those are so, so good. Also Big Red Barn because there are so many opportunities for us to make animal sounds. ^_^

Ikea crib and mattress with the Carter’s fitted sheet. We co-slept until Emma was like six months old. She rolls and spins around so much now that it is very necessary for her to sleep in her crib. Diaper changing table and baskets for Emma’s clothes from Ikea as well.

We swaddled Emma for eleven months. We have her hospital blankets and a few others. They are useful even though we have too many. I picked out a Muny comforter for her crib and of course she cannot have it in there because its a choking hazard. Next year perhaps. We loved all of her many fleece sacks (in which she has had three because she grows so fast! The one she has now has feet so she wear her slippers at night too. She looks like an adorable, cozy elf.

Ikea high chair in red and white. Its a lovely piece of furniture and again like twenty dollars. I was so happy when I bought it and Emma loves it too. We use ceramic cereal bowls from the Crate and Barrel outlet and metal/ceramic/wooden spoons. Glass canning jars for her food and glass Lifefactory baby bottles. They also have sippy cup lids that are cool. I have really tried to avoid plastic. We found some awesome pressed bamboo plates and bowls that Emma can use when she is ready to hold her own dishes. A stick blender and a drink blender is what I had before E was born so I have made do with out buying a food processor.

Lasinoh manual breast pump is really another amazing purchase. We still use the bottle rings that came with it to this day. Lasinoh makes pads and lanolin and the best wipes ever and basically its all good quality stuff. So for bottles we have Lifefactory glass with silicone cover, Lasinoh nipples rings and the Dr. Brown’s nipples. Its a mixed bag but we found the pieces that work.

The big stuff like stroller and car seat were gifts. We picked out the Wave stroller and get lots of compliments on it. I like that its nice looking and as functional as you can get. Everything is adjustable. Since we are a car free family we have a second hand car seat and have used it less than ten times. We did use the Moby wrap and won a Sakura Bloom wrap.

Emma never liked using a pacifier. My sister gave us a ton of Hyland’s teething tablets but eight teeth later we haven’t used them. She has a hair brush and comb but we have almost never used them. We have like five thermometers and three nasal aspirators from gifts plus the hospital sent us home with them. The only toiletries we use are baby q-tips and nail clippers. I bought a nail brush that we use occasionally. I have so many little things that have been in a basket unused this whole year. Its crazy how much stuff you think a baby needs.

Hope this helps anyone who may read this post! Love, Susan and Emma Clover

a new lappy

I bought a Mac Book Air. It has been a while since I purchased a Mac product but I have wanted a replacement since the loss of Cloud, my 20 inch iMac. This new air lappy is named Luna and we are getting along famously. I have a Nexus phone and love Android. Its a beautiful operating system. I used maiki’s Nexus 7 for a spell and that thing is made for Google Reader. Its a fabulous device and inexpensive. As you may remember I practiced graphic design before I became mom and my designer roots needed a computer that could help me tinker and play like I love to do.

a lovely time

our family photo taken by Diana Cossio

It has been a long time since I have sat down to write something here, I miss it but I have a ten month old baby so I have learned to relax a little. This experience of being a mother is even more beautiful every day. Lately my mornings begin with seeing her grin at me through the slats of her crib, so proud that she rolled over and happy she has found the tag on her mattress. The little things really add up. We may not have a lot of money but our cottage is comfortable. I cannot afford all the cute shoes and clothes I look at but I make the most with what I have. I am fortunate to live near the very best markets and the quality of produce we have is enviable I am sure. I am doing my best to live in the moment with Emma Clover and she is growing really fast (like wearing 18 mo. clothes)!

In the past couple months I have really enjoyed these things:

Birthday shoes from my sister Barbara. A pair of red Superga sneakers. Red shoes really make my whole day better!

Watching good shows with maiki. We like Alphas, Newsroom and Perception. And of course Naruto! Naruto is truly amazing.

Eating avocado, bananas, oatmeal (and all kinds of food really) with Clovey. I love sharing food with her and introducing my favorite things. Recently maiki shared his sushi roll with her. ^_^

Walking around Berkeley with my family. I sometimes complain that its boring but I am beginning to change my mind. We still love to go San Francisco and Clovey is a trooper when we do but Berkeley is satisfying me lately. Park outings and the newly opened Cafe Clem and the Sightglass coffee cart may be the reasons why!

Brunch at the Samovar tea lounge with maiki. They have this amazing russian black tea that is smokey. Also enjoying really good tea at home. My favorites are paris tea, cinnamon black vanilla, Kusmi earl gray, and mango iced tea.

Family from L.A. visiting us here so we don’t have to travel. I am glad that we have a photo gallery they can keep up with but its so much more fun for them to see Clovey in person. She really has the best temperament.

Routines with Clovey at the beginning and end of my days. Her and maiki walk me to the street every morning and kiss me good bye before I ride away. And every night I feed her a bottle before she goes to bed. I hold her close and sometimes walk around with her til she falls asleep.